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Weight Loss | What should I do if I can't lose weight?

24/9/2019

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This is such a common dilemma and a question I see time and time again on Facebook groups and Instagram - why am I not losing weight - I am being so good, what is going on? So when I saw my friend Bev, a certified health coach, nutritionist and behaviour change coach, had written about weight loss on her page I asked her if I could share her tips on my blog as her advice is so simple and so honest.

And a note about my own ongoing journey.  I did The SSS Plan from The Body Coach, stuck to it and lost the weight I had slowly allowed to creep on.  Being small it isn't much but I felt much fitter and much better.  I then had a few hormonal issues (understatement there - full on perimenopause) anyway mostly now I concentre on calories in (what I eat) and calories out (how much I move - I try to do two weight bearing workouts a week) and having educated myself over the last few years this works.  See what Bev has to say - simple habit changes really are the best approach.
weight loss what shall i do if I can't lose weight?
My outfit is from Asquith London (please see my previous blog post for full details)

Bev says ...

​So I've got my nutrition coach head on to try and clear up a few misconceptions around losing weight and hopefully give a few useful pointers.

Here's the hard truth. Whilst there are emotional and psychological reasons why losing weight can be difficult, the bottom line is that in order to lose weight you HAVE to be in a consistent calorie deficit.

This means consistently eating fewer calories than you are burning through day to day activities.
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IF YOU'RE NOT LOSING WEIGHT, YOU'RE NOT IN A CALORIE DEFICIT.

It sounds simple, but almost always we underestimate how many calories we eat and over estimate how much we move about.

If you're on a diet and not losing weight, the most likely reason is because you're not maintaining a consistent calorie deficit.

Very occasionally there may be medical factors at play, such as a sluggish thyroid, but in reality this is rarely the case.

Think of this. When your computer locks and stalls, the first advice we're usually given is to turn it off and back on again. To check the basics. This is because it needs to reset its system and 9 out of 10 times it works.

If you're not losing weight, you need to start with the basics. Just like rebooting your computer you need to reboot yourself.

Ask yourself some questions and be BRUTALLY honest with your answers.

Are you keeping a food diary (or using an app) and weighing and measuring the foods you put in your mouth?

Everything, even the foods you pick at while you're cooking, the handful of nuts you forgot you had, the couple of glasses of wine at the weekend?

Under-reporting of food is the NUMBER ONE reason we don't lose weight. We habitually eat without thinking about it and all those little additions can put us in a calorie surplus rather than a deficit.

Are you being good all week and then having a day or two off at the weekend?

It is incredibly easy to undo all the hard work you've done in the week with one or two 'I've been so good all week I deserve this' treats at the weekend.

And if you're severely restricting your calories all week this is even more pronounced because you're having to combat your body screaming at you for enough calories.

Are you spending too much time sitting still?

Going to the gym or doing an exercise class may feel like you're helping your diet, but often we move less and therefore burn fewer calories after a workout. This is because our body may be tired and therefore we simply move less.

There is also a tendency to justify eating more because we've done a workout.

General movement throughout the day burns far more calories than an hour in the gym. So whilst I'm not suggesting we don't do any planned exercise activity, we need to be careful that our non-exercise activity doesn't drop as a result.

Are you obsessing about all the foods you can't have?

If your diet is made up of tons of foods you're not allowed, you're going to feel resentful and very likely to have a binge when your willpower gives out.

Unless you have a particular trigger food that you have no ability to moderate, no foods should be off the menu. Calories are calories and so long as you're consistently maintaining a small deficit you will lose weight. The body doesn't care if your 200 calories come from a bar of chocolate or a banana smoothie in terms of the daily energy it gets from them.

That said, the body does handle different foodstuffs in different ways and the more whole and natural a food is the more full you will stay for longer. Therefore getting the bulk of your food from whole, unrefined foods will help with combating hunger pangs. But for sanity and adherence there is nothing wrong with including a few of your favourite foods into your calorie allowance.

WHAT CAN YOU DO?

  • Use a simple calorie calculator like this one to estimate your daily calorie needs but be careful not to over estimate your physical activity.
  • Make sure that you are eating mostly natural whole foods with lots of veggies at every meal.
  • Use a journal or an app such as My Fitness Pal and track everything you eat and drink. (I love the NutraCheck app - Michelle).
  • Reduce processed carbs with each meal. Carbs aren't the devil but we tend to massively overeat them. 
  • Ensure you're eating lean protein with every meal, especially breakfast as this will help to avoid blood sugar highs and lows throughout the day.
  • Drink plenty of water - between 1.5 and 2.5 litres per day.
  • Get enough sleep - we don't make good food choices when we're tired.
  • Weigh and measure everything. No, you don't need to do this forever, but if you're serious about losing weight you can't afford to leave it all up to chance.
  • Apply an 80:20 philosophy to your daily food intake. That means 80% comes from whole, natural, unprocessed foods such as lean meat and fish, eggs, vegetables, fruit, nuts, seeds and whole grains. The remaining 20% can come from the foods you love and keep your cravings at bay.

​Here's a blog post I wrote a good while ago that might help too - Has your weight loss hit a plateau?

I know I am not honest enough.  I know I don't always want to log my food.  And I know I don't always drink enough water.  And if I want to lose a few more pounds then I know I will have to be a bit more honest with myself.

Bev Thorogood runs Floresco Training and Coaching and works with businesses and organisations to offer menopause in the workplace training and policy support.

Love from
Michelle xx

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7 Comments
Ellis link
28/11/2019 01:38:16 am

Firstly, you are very much fabulous - for ANY age! Loved the article. It really hit home, though I'm a dude. I've been battling weight all my life and only in the last couple years I've been able to make progress. For me, it's all about the calories. Figuring out what your daily caloric intake to maintain your weight, then slowly trying to eat less from there. Doesn't have to be a drastic change. I've lost over 100 pounds this way, using the very tips you discuss. Take care, fab lady! :)

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5/3/2021 02:59:05 am

Happy to find your article, in fact a friend of mine who is your reader shared this article with me and the content in it was what I really needed to read will help me a lot, thank you, I'm sure it will help many other people like me helped.
I wish God to bless you so that you continue to help more and more people with your beautiful gift of writing.
Hugs!!

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Barb Smith
16/5/2021 12:33:09 am

Enjoyed reading your post on losing weight. I’ve struggled my whole life with my weight. I’m in my early 60’s. I’m going to try your helpful ideas. Thanks

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ishmal link
4/1/2022 02:48:51 pm

Thanks for sharing this article. Looking forward to reading more from you.

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8/1/2022 03:47:46 pm

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11/3/2022 04:50:10 pm

Very informative blog. Simple, effective, and useful too. Continue to enlighten us with your knowledge. Thanks for sharing...

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