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Sleep, Insomnia and Blue Lights

31/10/2017

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This wasn't my planned post today but having reached the end of my tether yesterday I decided that for my own accountability as well as sharing what I learnt with you, it would be good to post this today.

Sleep.  We love it!  We feel better for getting lots of it!  When we don't sleep well though we feel sick, miserable, fed up and frustrated.  And it can affect our health and fat loss - it is just as important, if not more important for fat loss, than calories!

I have a long history with insomnia and each time it gets me it is for a different reason, baby not sleeping through the night, stress, phobia, anxiety to name a few.  

Unfortunately though it is very much a modern problem that is causing so many of us to lack quality sleep now.  And yet we don't do anything about it.  We keep ignoring the problem and hoping tomorrow will be better.  

We are addicted to our smart phones (TV or iPad) - modern technology.  I talked about going 24 hour phone free a few months ago, unfortunately I have not repeated it often enough - see my post here.

Modern technology emits a blue light and this blue light interrupts our circadian rhythm and ability to produce melatonin, the essential hormone needed to make us feel sleepy.
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I'm not going to delve into the science bit, it is readily available online but I am going to share with you my action plan and the advice I have been given both from doing The 8020 Lifestyle Plan and from speaking to a sleep expert yesterday.

I've had a difficult summer with stress and it hasn't helped my ability to sleep properly, I either can't get off to sleep (probably due to the blue light of smart phone addiction) or I wake up in the middle of the night with a hot flush/night sweat (due to peri-menopause).  The result is I'm exhausted.

It does make my insomnia harder to solve due to having Sleep Initiation Insomnia and Sleep Maintenance Insomnia but first of all I am going to deal with the Sleep Initiation:

I've got into bad habits and here is my action plan for change:
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  • Don't use a smart phone after about 8 pm.  Or the iPad,  And preferably reduce TV time so that you are screen free for an hour before you want to go to sleep.
  • Ideally leave your phone out of the bedroom or at least not accessible so you are not tempted to pick it up.  I like to have it nearby in case one of my children need to get hold of me!  Yes they could call the landline!
  • Remove any time clues, so no digital clocks and don't look at the clock when you can't sleep, it just leaves you feeling more frustrated.
  • Don't drink caffeine after about 4 pm, earlier if possible.  This includes tea, coffee and carbonated drinks.
  • Get plenty of exercise and fresh air during the day.
  • Have a regular bedtime 7 days a week.
  • Have a regular rising time 7 days a week - no weekend lie-ins!  Routine is key.
  • If you can't sleep get up and leave the bedroom, go to another room and read a book by a dim light then return to bed when you feel sleepy again.
  • Remove the anxiety of not being able to sleep, it is annoying but the more you stress about it the worse it gets.  Your body will get the sleeps it needs.

My plan is to have a wind-down time and be more strict about keeping to it.  So no mindless scrolling on social media after about 8 pm, then I shall watch some TV downstairs in the lounge, have a relaxing hot bath then read a book.  The experts suggest that you should not even read in bed.  Bed is for sleep and sex.  I am not sure I am keen to give up reading in bed so I am going to experiment with that one and see how I get on.

Even light-bulbs emit a certain amount of blue light although a bedside table lamp is still far preferable to the blue light from our devices.  There are alternative light-bulbs and a quick google search turned up this article but so far I've not found a UK company that sell this type of bulb - more research needed!

I am told that it will take 2 -3 weeks of sticking to this new routine to break my old habits and see results.  If I can tackle the Sleep Initiation then I can then look at the Sleep Maintenance around my peri-menopausal symptoms, but one thing at a time!

​There is some more great advice at The Sleep Council or I spoke to an expert at The Sleep Disorders Clinic.

Love
Michelle xx
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Katherine Wilford
31/10/2017 05:42:48 pm

Michelle
I feel your pain! I would give anything to a good night's sleep . I am a similar age to you and nighttime restlessness is a common occurrence during the menopause. I take a magnesium tablet about an hour before bed which does help,( either neat Mag or one mixed with Calcium) I avoid using my phone to check social media etc. after about 9 and I do read in bed ; but frustratingly I find I can only manage a couple of pages before I nod off, then when I turn off my light ( low wattage bulb) and lie still - wham I'm wide awake! Do I then turn on the light and read again, do I lie still and try to clear my mind/try mindfulness, concentrate on breathing etc, or do I listen to the radio? I'm lucky to be able to try all these options as my husband is away a lot and I don't need to worry about disturbing him , yet more stress, and happily when he's home I don't need to read ;) I have also tried the creams and pillow sprays from Neals Yard which help a little, I've also got them to make up a "sleep potion" tincture, which , if I'm honest didn't work for me but may help you.
Finally I have had AMN ( Applied Movement Neurology) treatment , part of which focuses on sleep and realigning the body's circadian rhythm, from my trainer, after one session my sleep pattern has improved but I am still a work in progress.
Good luck with your quest for a decent night's sleep and I shall look forward to hearing your progress . K x

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Michelle Green link
1/11/2017 06:34:52 pm

Really great comment, thanks for the ideas! I've tried all the pillow sprays and potions, I've got the Lush body cream at the moment, it is lovely, not sure it really works though! I have tried Magnesium, well I still take it and magnesium bath salts too. In fact over the years I have probably spent a fortune and rattled with drugs but I guess in truth I have to accept it is my routine that needs sorting, I can't outsmart what my body needs naturally and that is peace and quiet and relaxation! I'm interested in looking up AMN though ... not heard of that one! Michelle x

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Jane Morris
31/10/2017 11:17:00 pm

I understand all this very well Michelle. I find reading in bed (I would never get out of bed to read!) sends me into a much deeper sleep. Night sweats are proving to be an issue but I'm trying not to let them stress me out although time will tell on that one. You're not alone xx

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Michelle Green link
2/11/2017 09:03:12 am

Hi Jane! No getting out of bed to read just seems too much! But I have stuck to this new routine for the last few nights and it is definitely helping (although the night sweats continue but I am trying not to let them stress me now)! Let's get a date in the diary! xx

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Tim Walliams link
23/2/2020 10:05:51 pm

Hi Jane! There is lots of information on Obstructive Sleep Apnoea on www.sleeptest.co.uk for individuals suffering with this night time affliction. Hope this helps!

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