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Finding the right care for an elderly parent can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re trying to balance their independence with the growing need for support.. Over the past year or so, it has become apparent that my dad needed a little bit more help at home, he's been living alone since my mum had to go and live in a nursing home due to advanced Alzheimer's. Having been looked after by my mum for 60 years it was quite an adjustment, both emotionally and practically!
My dad is 88 now and fiercely independent, fortunately he is still mentally sharp but his mobility has declined, we've gradually introduced a few things to help like a stair lift and walking aids. Me and my two sisters live nearby but we wanted to make sure our time with him stayed focussed on keeping him company, fun outings, celebrations, and doing family stuff and not personal care. After lots of family discussions, we introduced a carer into his routine: someone to visit for one hour each morning, six days a week. It’s made a huge difference, she helps him get dressed, prepares breakfast, organises medication, tidies the house, and checks if he needs shopping or errands done. More importantly, they chat, and he no longer starts the day alone. Through this experience, I learned a lot about what matters when choosing a carer. If you’re currently navigating this journey for a parent or loved one, here are my top tips to help you feel confident about your decision - plus a great offer from Country Cousins, who provide compassionate, one-on-one carers across the UK. This blog post contains an affiliate link - get £50 off your care membership with Country Cousins (see below).
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I don't know about you but I'm guessing you are just like me, as midlife women we generally put everyone else first, our children, ageing parents, work commitments and endless to-do lists, and we brush off the nagging signs that all might not be well with our own health and we just carry on. Getting a GP appointment can be a mission, often needing to be booked weeks in advance, so we give up. NHS health screenings can feel a bit sporadic and disconnected, there’s rarely an opportunity to understand the full picture in one go.
I’ve known for a while that something hasn’t felt quite right with my health. I’m not sure I can pinpoint exactly when the exhaustion started, but I’ve definitely been guilty of ignoring it and hoping I’d feel better tomorrow. I've been dismissing the subtle signs like fatigue, poor sleep, a few more aches and pains, anxiety, and low mood as 'just getting older.' But if it were our partner, a friend, or one of our children, we’d insist they saw a doctor. So why don’t we do the same for ourselves? I knew it was time for a health reset when I was invited to book the EXTRA Health Screening at The Maxwell Practice in Henley-on-Thames and what an incredibly reassuring experience it was. My private health screen in Henley was gifted as part of this blog collaboration but I can honestly say it was worth every penny, and I would absolutely pay for it myself. This is a gifted blog post. |
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